Competition in everyday life can make people bitter.
We are commanded not to covet, yet we spend most of our waking hours comparing ourselves to others. We fall short of our own expectations mainly because we are so wrapped up in someone else’s version of what makes life worth living. Our self esteem is dependent on our bank account, what we wear, the car we drive, and where we live. There is always someone who has more, to encourage our wasteful consumerism and drive us mad.
Blessed is the individual who can stop and say, “My life is awesome. I may not have everything I want, but I have everything I need.” Gratefulness leads to contentment. Contentment creates harmony and balance. Isn’t that what we really desire?
When you start to feel down because you believe you don’t measure up try some of these suggestions:
- Work each day on becoming the best you can be.
- Make decisions that are right for you and the ones you love.
- Focus on the beauty of the here and now.
- Consider all that you have and count your blessings daily.
- Catch yourself when you start to compare and ask yourself; “why does it matters how others are doing?” Listen carefully to your own answers.
Saying the silent “thank you” when you wake up in the morning is quite possibly the best way to start your day.
Next time you find yourself wishing you were someone else for the things they have, stop for a moment and wonder what you may not see. Perhaps that beautiful woman has a tragedy in her family. Perhaps that rich husband is a horrible control freak. Perhaps that big house is a few months from foreclosure. Perhaps those perfect kids do drugs with their buddies.
So when you find yourself coveting, remember…
Perhaps they wish they were you!