There are two sure things in life: death and taxes. As I grow older, I’m sadly learning that the statement is a valid one, to say the least.
This past week, the world lost an amazing person: my coworker and friend. I’ve known several people to die, but I either barely knew them or they had lived a full life. I know that everybody says this, but I wish that I could have seen his star shine bright for longer.
When he walked into the room, any worries or sadness you were thinking vanished with his energy and excitement for life. We would dance to an entire song, even with no one looking. It would be just us, having fun. He was confident and proud of who he was.
I still don’t know how I’m supposed to feel. I may have not gotten to know him outside of work, but we made each other laugh and I truly consider him my friend.
I can only hope that I will love the rest of my life, whether it is a week or 50 more years, with as much exuberance and flair as he did. Please remember that we get only one chance in this world. His life was cut far too short.
You will be forever missed, my Firework. Rest in peace.
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